Jul 12, 2011
The Hopeless Teen
i am a teenage girl. and i am kinda shy. for the past couple of
years ive been liking this guy. he is sweet, charming, and somewhat
sensative. well i like him. and all my friends know it. Me and this guy have
talked a couple times. we used to text all the time. he just broke up with
his girl friend (but he goes threw girls like underwear). we’ve started to
text again but evertime i text him he doesnt even know who i am, and in my
eyes this means he wont even give me time to charm him. i really like this
guy. but he has been hurt alot and so have i. I guess what im trying to ask
is how do i get this guy to talk(or text) me like we used to and how do i
get his attention
Thanks!
Sometimes I like going back one year to this day or even two and see what was going on on this date, “journals are such a good idea” Anyway, I noticed July 13th 2009 and … “Happy Birthday Denis!!! 🙂 🙂
Sue
I agree with Shari, let him come to you. The more you try to manipulate a situation in your favor the worse things can get…stay nice but don’t overdo the texts, that could get annoying to him.
Just be yourself, and if its ment to be it will happen. Take a word from someone who has been through it. If you push him it may turn his head the other direction. Work on your schoolwork and pretend you dont know him. Dress nice and be a good person. He will come around if he is interested. If he changes girlfrends like underwear, he really is not the kind of boy you need in your life. Write your feelings down in your journal, and leave them there untill he comes for you. Smile and have a great time waiting for him.
I agree with Susan – this is good advice. Get on with your life and friends and schoolwork and don’t pursue him. Don’t be too available and focus on who you are and on looking fabulous. Guys will then follow, probably somebody better than him.
xoxo
Seems like he’s been recently hurt from the last break up and if so then it will take time for him to want another girlfriend. If you like this guy like you say you do then you are going to have to overcome that to get his attention. Being shy keeps people from knowing who you really are. I once was a shy person and it’s not easy to overcome shyness, but work on that with yourself and see what happens with you as a person. Maybe then you will know the right things to say to him so he will remember who you are when you do talk yo him…
Good Luck 🙂
Men have a natural hunting nature and want to be the ones who do the “pursuing”. Be friendly, but stop texting him. If he really is into you, he’ll text you.